Friday, August 15, 2014

My thoughts on Selena Gomez.

STARTING WITH A GIGANTIC DISCLAIMER:

Alright I don't care what fandom you are in. or what side of the arguement you are on These are just my personal thoughts and opinions. I don't know either of them personally and therefore have no right to judge, or tell you what is or isn't true.

Now then, I got an email this morning saying that Justin Bieber posted yet ANOTHER picture of him and Selena kissing. Now idk if it's still up, after a quick trip to facebook it looks like it might have been deleted. But let's think about this as rationally as we can. I remember reading a magazine article in I think it was US magazine quite a while back saying that Justin and Selena were in an emotionally abusive relationship, or at the very least an extremely toxic one.

Taking that into consideration, let's now look at how Selena has been acting lately; she's been a crazy party animal, doing drugs hard core (Forgive me if I don't use the right terminology, I happen to be CLEAN AND CLEAR HEADED though I know enough about drugs). Just this week I was at the grocery store and on the cover of a magazine (I don't remember the name of it) was a picture of a doped up, strung out Selena with the title, "Selena's Overdose Drama: Back to rehab!"

All things aside, that's really where she should be heading. She is a druggie, a party animal, and using both of those things to escape Justin, and probably a hold he still has on her. From what I remember from various magazine articles, he would constantly degrade her, give her STD scares, and have you ever noticed how extremely submissive Selena looks around him? Like she's trying to stay on his good side.

And has anyone else noticed that she's never hanging with anyone anymore? Not with Taylor Swift, ESPECIALLY not with Demi Lovato (Hate to bring up old wounds but it's worth mentioning). Which, also, could be why she's reeling and drowning; Just take a look at September 2012 and you'll see I had the same reaction when I lost my BFF. But I also get Demi's point of view: She has to do what's best for her and her health and her life, and I bet that decision wasn't an easy one to make either.

Anyways, back to Justin; He seems like the kind to yell, degrade, and then let's just look at his string of bad decisions in the past six months alone. He may take his frustrations out on her. And finally, I would like to give you a definition of cyber abuse:

  1. Digital abuse is the use of technologies such as texting and social networking to bully, harass, stalk or intimidate a partner. In most cases, this type of abuse is emotional and/or verbal and though it is perpetuated online, it has a strong impact on a victim's real life. (Soruce: The first thing that came up on a google search)
THAT is what I think the photo is; His way of controlling her, and making her do what he wants. It's a pretty strong accusation, I'm aware. It's also probably wrong too. They could be in a loving and committed relationship and just are hesitant to share any of it with the world. And you know what? THAT'S WHY I DON'T GET INVOLVED IN THIS SORT OF THING. I may form opinions, but I sure as hell don't think that any of this is in any way right (Unless one of the two celebrities that this post is about or their agents would like to tell me otherwise)! BE A FREE THINKER. Also, don't get too emotionally involved; it typically doesn't end well (Take it from someone who shipped and got heavily involved in Jemi; God I was weird when I was fourteen. Now I ship Logan Henderson and Demi Lovato! :P). But yeah, I just felt like sharing this. Idk why.

Oh, you wanna know what I think Selena and Justin should do, do you? Well, I think Selena needs to get her happy butt BACK to rehab and NOT leave and actually stick with it. Which I know is no easy feat; recovery isn't easy. But it's WORTH IT. As for Justin? He should stop egging (And doing drugs and drunk driving and drag racing...) and spend some time with Jesus and actually take his punishment for all the dumb things he did LIKE A MAN. If that means jail time, then he should do it. I know jail is no easy place, but I know a lot of prison ministries that would help him while he's there.

And that my friends is my analysis of the whole Justin kissing Selena photo rumor that's BEEN going around for how many months now? Geez. And again, IN NO WAY AM I SAYING ANY OF THIS IS TRUE. These are just my thoughts and opinions. That being said.... Feel free to share this. Who knows where it would end up or who could see it. And NO THIS IS NOT A PUBLICITY STUNT.

Anyways, I feel like absolute crap so I'm gonna go take a nap kbaiiii.

Sincerely,
-Katie

(AND NOW FOR THE LONG AWAITED RETURN OF THE SOCIAL MEDIA AT THE BOTTOM OF THE POST!)

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